I was talking today with someone who I dated several months ago. When we went on dates, we connected very well. But sadly he called and said he found someone who he "connected more with". Respecting his new found relationship, I let it go and just move on. Today he IMs me and told me he and that girl are over. Thank goodness he didn't go and say that he wanted to try again because the answer would've been no as I know there's better people out there. After talking a few, he finally told me the reason why we didn't work out. Simply put... personality I would've been the one, but physically was not since I was overweight. The girl he dated fits his physical criteria but would eventually turn into an emotional psycho to him, treated him badly. Why is it that people always go for the better looking but very mean over the average Joe/Jane and have the better personality? I mean in my case, I have a career, a house, no children, good moral values, and yet the only thing standing in the way is my body? It's not like I'm 300 pounds and 5'2" (I'm 5'8" and just over 200... I used to been at my smallest 160, which is small on my body). At least I am working out and trying to be healthy for myself. Plus guys always say I have a pretty/cute face. I know women do the same thing (I was guilty of that in the past) but why is that? Can there be a middle balance to this? :-\
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